Do you ever wonder why people come into your life, and then things suddenly remove them?

What is the purpose?

How about someone you meet that you just instantly have this spark with.

Deep down inside, you feel like you two were meant to be together.

Even though its hard to see how the other person is feeling?

I have had such an experience.

I have met this girl.

She is completely different than anyone I have ever met.

When I first seen her, something just touched me and I had to

send out my first reply.

I anticipated her response on pins and needles.

When I seen she had contacted me back, I was nervous and excited at the same time.

I couldnt wait to open it and see what she had to say.

We wrote back and forth several times and eventually moved to the text stage.

And I loved to see her name pop up on the screen.

Im not saying I was instantly in love with her. Im just saying that

she touched something in me that no one else ever made contact with.

We talked for several weeks via text. And we seemed to have a connection even deeper

than I realized. I got to the point where she was always on my mind.

And I was wondering how her day was, how things with her Son were going and when I was going to get the chance to talk with her again.

Seemed like everything was going great and we were on the path to meeting up, hanging out and seeing where this road could lead.

We both have had some hard times in life, even though her experiences were much more drastic than myself.

And she has put herself in this barricade that was a lot taller, and thicker than the one I had up myself.

All the things she had went through I could never know.

All I could do was be here for her, listen to her and hope I could make her feel better.

Im not looking to help her with her life or try and make things better for her.

I am wanting to be there beside her.

I wanted to be an extension of who she is and build us from this point on.

Show her that there is someone who would walk by her side and never leave her

or abandon her.

Someone who has been down a similar path emotionally.

We finally met….

And I must tell ya, I bombed….BAD!

I was so wrapped up in being cautious with what I did, that I completely

threw everything we had been building out the window.

I really had no idea what to do.

And usually things like that arent too hard for me.

I dont know if it was the previous chemistry we had for one another while texting or

if it was just my uncertainty of what was to come.

When we first met and I hugged her. I wanted to just hold her….

When we got back to her place, I wanted to make everything right.

Because it all felt right.

She was breathtaking. A beautiful woman with an equally beautiful soul.

And I was at wits end then lost it all.

Sure. She isnt the first woman I have ever talked with and not the only choice I have to

be with.

But she was the one in which I felt I belonged.

And even though it was just yesterday that we met and I tossed it all away with the

uncertainty, I know that she doesnt hold the same eye for me she did.

But in my soul. I still long for her.

She is on my mind all day long.

And I havent even been blessed enough to fall in love with her yet.

These feelings are just raw, unplanned feelings that I cant help.

I know we can be an explosive and formidable couple.

We can have the world and then some.

If only she would let me have the chance to rebuild the thing I destroyed when we first met….

She has had a hard life and deserves someone fantastic who will love her

unconditionally. All I am asking is for that person to be me.

Selfish? Maybe. But I know I can stand toe to toe with

anyone else.

And come out on top.

She is everything I had hoped she would be and then some.

I am no perfect man by any means.

But with all we both have gone through.

We deserve complete happiness in our lives and who better to have it with than this

Beautiful Woman?

I could go on and on about this.

But this is enough for this day.

More to come, no doubt.

Much Love.

James

View her inspirational story and her lifelong goal to help those in need.

Its not about the money or a nice house. Its about helping people and making a difference in their lives.

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To Your Success,

James Collins

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To Your Success,

James Collins

www.TheAbundantSolution.com

He has made an amazing recovery and is feeling great.
He of course had to take some time off but he in now getting back into the swing of things.
He made this free video series in which Bob explains what the secret of life is.
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Here’s to your success,

James Collins

PASSION
You Have To Have Passion!
Ones who are Passionate are playing and not working. They enjoy what they are
doing. Passion is Critical.

TRUE NORTH
Knowing where you are and where you want to be.
You have got to see the big picture.
You cannot allow your present circumstances control
your thinking.
Your present circumstances are a Result of you Past Behaviors
and Actions
Start putting Plans in Place on how to achieve that.

You Have Got To Believe In Yourself And Know
What You Want To Achieve Is Possible!
You dont have to know how to do what you want to achieve.
You have to believe you can achieve it.
If you dont believe it, you can never achieve it.

FOCUS
Be focused on getting the job done and what it takes to get it done.
If you arent focused, your looking in the wrong category.
Dont sweat the small stuff. Focus on the important or big stuff.
Priorities your tasks.

“Oxygen Thinking”
What is needed to keep me alive?
Put the same aspect on your business.
What is needed to keep IT alive and thriving?

The average person loses focus 6-10 times per minute.
The cost of that can be 3-5 minutes everytime its lost.
Follow your Intuition and Gut feelings.
Focus on what feels right.
Measure Results; Not Time
What is the one activity if you focused on it…would
bring the greater results?

Focus – Your ability to concentrate. Bring a task to completion

MINDSET
Change your Brain, Change your Bottomline.
82-90% of people lose money because of the wrong Mindset.
Recondition your brain.
If you wanted to do better and faster things with your computer,
then what do you do? Upgrade your computer.
The same goes with your brain.
Want to achieve more? Upgrade your brain…..
Meaning to recondition it to be better.

REPEAT THE FOLLOWING AS DESIRED
TO HELP ACHIEVE GREAT RESULTS:

I HAVE ALREADY BEGUN TO REALIZE ALL OF THIS IN MY
LIFE AND I HAVE, THROUGH CONNECTION WITH THE
LIMITLESS INTELLIGENCE, EVERYTHING I NEED TO REALIZE
MY DEAMS AND GOALS
EVERYDAY, IN EVERYWAY, I AM GETTING BETTER AND BETTER!

I, (your name), LOVE MYSELF.
I AM FULL OF LOVE.
I AM A FRIEND TO ME.
THROUGH LOVING MYSELF,
I LOVE OTHERS.
THROUGH LOVING OTHERS,
I LOVE MYSELF.
WHEN I GIVE TO OTHERS,
I GIVE TO ME.
WHEN I GIVE TO ME,
I GIVE TO OTHERS.

Much Love,
James Collins

Six Cost Effective Ways:
Blog posting
Videos
Adwords (if used wisely)
Flyers
Verbal
Direct Mail

Blog Posting:
This is free at almost all sites that allow it and you can post until your heart is content. You can post blogs on anything that you feel would get the attention of potential customers. The key here is to post frequently. And if you can have some topics that are topping the “interest” charts, then you can have a very successful blogging business. What do I mean? Well, post blogs on things that people are interested in at the time. Like at the time of this writing, you can choose topics such as the Presidential Race. Who you feel needs to win and why. Or maybe the Olympics and your pics and favorites. Or you can just rant about who done what and why they shouldn’t win. Even choose topics such as the new shows premiering. How about your views on the New “90210”?
It really is limitless when it comes to this. Make sure you use key words frequently so that your page gets ranked efficiently. The more keywords you use and the better you place them, the more views your post will receive.

Videos:
Videos are very useful when it comes to reaching someone on a more “personal” level. It shows your human side and even the flaws that you have, just like the viewer does. Sometimes this is overlooked as a main source of traffic and media generation.
Use video frequently as well as wisely. Since these do draw more attention to the real side of you or the person you are portraying, make sure you touch key factors of the viewers emotions. Use of the emotional factors successfully will generate more traffic and more leads to your page. You can also use this to rant and rave about your topics of interest. Or the “Hot Topics” at the time, such as President Hopefuls, Olympic Winners and New Shows coming on.

Adwords:
This is probably the most expensive approach if not used correctly. If you get an Adwords acct. Make sure that you limit your spending and daily budget to something you can afford. You can literally spend thousands of dollars in no time if you don’t fully understand the system. And the sad thing is, you will have no traffic and no cash fast.
So approach this wisely. Make sure you learn all you can on how to effectively use Adwords to not only get the most out of your money, but also the most traffic possible in little time.

Flyers:
Flyers are handy when it comes to a personal touch. Not only can you put these everywhere the law allows, but if you are the one handing them out, you get to interact with the potential customer on a face to face basis. It helps to bring things into perspective with the client as far as you being a genuine person. Maybe you can even answer any questions or make a sale on the spot! These aren’t very good for most people as far as targeted audiences or sales. But it does help get the word out….as long as they read the flyer, that is.

Verbal:
This is probably the best and most key way to get traffic and business to a great company. If someone likes or dislikes a certain product or business, then once the word is spread from person to person, its like wildfire. So whatever you do, try your best to make sure the customer is happy with your products or services, because one bad rap from someone could seriously hurt your business and has the potential to put you out of business. Don’t let this scare you. I may have been a lil dramatic there…lol. But I just want you to see the importance of this type of communication as well. Don’t take it lightly.

Direct Mail:
This is a good way to get targeted audiences visiting your site. That is, as long as they don’t take your information as junk mail and trash it before looking it over. This is fairly cheap to do most cases and has the potential to hit many homes. Also, if the recipient likes (or dislikes) what he or she see’s, then there is the possibility of verbal communication between them about your business. So make your information look important and also very appealing. Draw them in with interest and you could have yourself a new client.

I hope this has helped you some as far as learning a little bit about the different ways to market your business. Some are better than others, but all of them have the potential to help you build your business to success unknown. Just make sure that what you are doing is helping you, and not hurting you. Bad publicity is one thing you don’t want when it comes to an internet business. They already have a bad reputation as it is because of all the scam companies out there. So the thing you need to concentrate on is making sure that your potential customer knows yours doesn’t fall into that endless category as soon as possible. Make them feel comfortable with you, and you will have not only a better chance at a sale, but a better chance at them telling their friends, family and co-workers.
Good luck and I hope to see you on the Forbes 500 soon.

Much Love,
James Collins